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No, TopHat, they're/we're not talking about rights. We are talking about social stigma and prejudices. And you can't deny that it's still around, on both sides. Men who fuck lots of women? Players and total studs. Women who fuck lots of men? Sluts and should be ashamed of themselves. Prejudicstic ideas that women are not as good as men at certain jobs. Even people who still think women should keep their damn mouths shut and work in the kitchen. And yes, also the prejudice and stigma for men, that they are more likely to punch or rape and such. Those are different from rights. So who cares if there are equal RIGHTS in America if the STIGMA still is around, and not just in America?
Oh so it's stigmas then? Fine, I'll bite. Sure, there's stigmas. But you know what? They affect both sides and eventually, they won't be around anymore. Women should be quiet and work in the kitchen? Sure, I've heard that before. But the majority of the time it's done in jest, by people who KNOW that it's sexist and don't believe it. The people that do actually mean it are in the minority.
To me, I view that feminism is only reinforcing these stigmas by placing women below men as victims. And when men try to defend themselves from generalizations, the feminists lose their shit.
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I still have no fucking clue who this is and quite frankly don't care.
He was a mentally ill misogynistic American that went on a killing rampage. I guess it's not big news outside of here.
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But at the same time you say (or sound) like you're generalizing every feminist to be a "feminazi". It's great that you openly say that the feminism you've seen is that type, but you also talk as if all feminism is like that. It's kind of like you're taking the opposite point of their feminism, by generalizing it, too.
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Again, this is from the majority of feminism that I have personally seen. And frankly, I don't support this kind of ideology which is why I'm not one of them.
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Are you being wilfully dense or something? I haven't once said men are actively oppressing women. You clearly don't understand what the patriarchy is and you clearly don't actually want to learn anything. Open minded, you are not. The patriarchy is the fact that nearly all people in a position of power are men, and therefore naturally tip the scale in favour of men. Not every man is a patriarch, in fact few are.
If so few men are patriarchs, then how can there be a patriarchy? And don't fucking call me close minded and not willing to learn anything. People like you use emotion to support their ideals and not evidence. You have no argument.
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Also lol at "there is some sexism". Yes, women being harassed in the street and people dismissing this as unimportant is only "some sexism". Jesus Christ dude. Rights have nothing to do with the inherent bias against women in society.
Yes, and men being sexually harassed in the workplace or falsely accused of rape, and it not being treated the way it should. Your point?
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Nice job completely missing the point on the politicians issue. "just vote for more!" oh of course it was so simple, silly me, all our systemic bias fixed! Oh wait no that's impossible because men are still seen as better leaders for no reason, a bias that both men AND women have as a result of the way they've been brought up in a patriarchal society. There AREN'T any female politicians to elect because of this, and even if there were, they would have less chance of being voted. This isn't exactly rocket science man and the fact that you fail to grasp this is kind of mindblowing. Did you seriously think that the low number of female politicians was just because they aren't getting voted for?
Which is what the feminism movement is only doing, reinforcing women as helpless victims with #YesAllWomen. Listen, the old white Christian males that are in office right now won't be around forever. They'll die, and our generation will take over. I think it's safe to assume that the majority of us support equality for other people. So things will change, regardless of votes.
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Nice job dodging the point about senior management!
See last point. The younger generation is taking over.
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Erm yes, the birth control issue does. Women being seen as sluts for being promiscuous is explicitly tied to the controversy around birth control. Also I get it you hate religious people. Fundamentalists are a small demographic. They are not the problem.
Yes, they are. America is run by Christian politicians who are trying to impose their BS morality on everyone, including women with birth control. I've never heard anything about women being viewed as sluts with this issue. AND AGAIN I DON'T HATE RELIGIOUS PEOPLE I HATE RELIGION. Why do I constantly have to repeat myself on this?
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Actually #YesAllWomen has been helping. Did you see the amounts of tweets and articles about people reading through the hashtag and realising the problems women face. That's called "raising awareness". It's a form of activism. And it educated me so I guess you're wrong.
Actually it started because a bunch of stupid idiots started a #NotAllMen hashtag to show that they weren't rapists. #YesAllWomen was a response to that absolutely useless line of thinking.
No, it's just because they have nothing else to report. They're covering another bullshit trend, nothing more. If you honestly didn't know about the problems that women face and you call yourself a feminist, there's something wrong.
Oh yeah, and I guess #KillAllMen is perfectly fine. How is saying that "not all men are rapists" a useless line of thinking, when that's exactly what the feminist movement is making us out to be? We can't defend ourselves from these things or show different arguments without you feminists losing your shit.
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Stop including strawman radfems in your evaluation of feminism. That's about as useful as me saying "Well the WestBoro Baptist church exists so every Christian is a terrible person" or "Malcolm X was violent so the Civil Rights leaders are terrorists!"
Can't comment on Malcolm X, and the WestBoro Baptist Church are a hate group. I don't think Christians are terrible people, but I think that their beliefs are irrational and dogmatic. I support their rights to practice whatever they believe in, but that doesn't mean that I agree with them at all. It's the same with feminism. I don't hate feminists, but I view their beliefs towards women and men to be irrational and close-minded. The movement is fueled on emotion, not logic.
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And we're back to this "secular humanist" thing. Okay, tell me of all the amazing things secular humanism has done and why no one has ever heard of it.
Uh, how about the billions of dollars in aid that countries and organizations donate to underprivileged people every year? How about the homeless shelters that are set up? HOW ABOUT HOSPITALS FOR FUCKS SAKE. The list goes on and on.
Just because you haven't heard of humanism, doesn't mean others haven't. Nor does it lessen the effects it has on society every day. Without humanism, society simply wouldn't function. You do it every day when you help people.
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I'll say this again, but solve the problems of sexism, you need a single, precisely targeted movement. By dismantling the patriarchy, the problems men face will be solved too, feminists know this, bla bla bla I feel like I'm repeating myself and you're refusing to listen. And the focus is on women because they are the vastly disadvantaged ones. Like holy crap just look at E3, they've had ONE female senior games developer up there compared to like 20 men. But sexism is over I guess!
Where the fuck are you getting these ludicrous ideas? I never said ANYTHING about sexism being over. Racism isn't over. Bigotry isn't over. We combat them every day. And again, the modern feminism movement hasn't done anything effective.
I don't know why you're bringing up that example. Women design video games and are heavily involved with the production. Companies won't turn you away just because of your gender. If you're someone who's good at programming, dedicated to games, etc, they will hire you. Regarding E3 and such, I found this excellent interview with Aisha Tyler and how things are getting better.
http://recode.net/2014/06/07/ubisofts-e ... -gamer-qa/Quote:
Though yes Tophat you are generalising, it doesn't matter if all you've experienced are radical feminists (which I know can't be true as you have talked to several here including the Mild-Mannered General Luigi) you still know that they do not represent every feminist or even proper feminist values.
Then why is it that I've only ever seen them running the show? Why is it that I've never seen any of the so-called "proper" feminists doing anything? This is why feminism today is a joke and not an effective movement.
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Raising awareness (even if it's via twitter) is an effective measure, considering that the core of the problem is in people's thinking and ignorance. Let's face it, sexism is something that's probably been engraved in some of us from generations of 'traditional gender roles' some people won't be aware they are doing anything wrong. Just making them aware that something is actually a problem can enlighten people and change how they think.
The new generation obviously doesn't think that way. If you see the numbers, you find that every year things get better and better for women. Again, Twitter doesn't raise awareness, it propels ignorance and hysteria.
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You always talk about glorious historic speakers, they change people's minds with words, it doesn't always need to boil down to 'torch and pitchfork' activism. It's the same concept, true stories and experiences to awaken the minds of people and open their eyes to the problems faced except instead of individual iconic leaders the new age of the internet allows millions of people to share their thoughts on the problem.
Those historic speakers actually did things in the real world through real activism. Not writing something in 140 characters that does jackshit. Again, this is only a hysterical response to Elliot Rodger against men. I don't expect it to last for very long. Like all trends, they eventually die.
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I understand you want humanity to progress as a race rather than divisions like this but the problems that we face are big and we aren't going to get anywhere without dividing them into small chunks like this.
Feminism isn't helping though. I haven't seen it do anything to further help women in this day and age. Again, it's only reinforcing these sexist and victimized mentalities that they're supposedly against.