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I think its a little late for that. What you mean to say was
"Please dont mention that again"
"Please dont mention that again"
That too.
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So wonder what type of girl Balrog's into?
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Yeah, well maybe if I wasn't so much better than everyone else, I wouldn't have to talk about it so much.
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Balrog wrote:
You'd like to know, wouldn't you ;D
LOL.
I know where to find it too. We have the same views on it as well.
Don't mind me, just passing through.
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Yeah, well maybe if I wasn't so much better than everyone else, I wouldn't have to talk about it so much.
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If only there were girls like you at my school ;_;
I guess that you've learned that nice guys like us finish last?A guy I know and I have talked about this often. Somehow the jerks get the girls and the nice guys are alone (like that guy and I). That's the agreement we came to, anyway. But I'm not changing my ways, so...
I'm hoping that that is just a high school trend and that it is different in college, where girls are probably looking for a different kind of person.
To be on topic, though: I have learned to enjoy my own company. I have no problem being home and either playing video games, watching sports in my room, reading, playing pool, practicing sports, or watching TV with the family. Yeah, there is a lot I can do at my house. That said, I still get lonely sometimes, and I do enjoy getting together with my friends on the weekends or school vacations (February vacation, w00t!). Basically, I'm cool with going solo, but I do like my company.
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Balrog wrote:
xfma_addictx wrote:
I want a huggy boyfriend. HUGS FTW.
And he's gotta be nice. And smart. And calm. And helpful. And OK with my crazyness. And nice. And tall. To reach the cabinets I can't reach. And a potential PW convert. Or a PW freak to begin with. And likes video games. And kids. And [/endless rant]
And he's gotta be nice. And smart. And calm. And helpful. And OK with my crazyness. And nice. And tall. To reach the cabinets I can't reach. And a potential PW convert. Or a PW freak to begin with. And likes video games. And kids. And [/endless rant]
If only there were girls like you at my school ;_;
Maybe they're hiding?
You could visit MY school anytime XD
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xfma_addictx wrote:
I want a huggy boyfriend. HUGS FTW.
And he's gotta be nice. And smart. And calm. And helpful. And OK with my crazyness. And nice. And tall. To reach the cabinets I can't reach. And a potential PW convert. Or a PW freak to begin with. And likes video games. And kids. And [/endless rant]
And he's gotta be nice. And smart. And calm. And helpful. And OK with my crazyness. And nice. And tall. To reach the cabinets I can't reach. And a potential PW convert. Or a PW freak to begin with. And likes video games. And kids. And [/endless rant]
I'm not looking for a girlfriend right now but I just wanted to say that's almost a description of me.
(I wont claim smart though.):D
Well, at least there are guys out there that ARE like that! Yay :)
@George: I love nice guys. It's just that nice guys only get dates later in life because they understand the importance of waiting. All the 'bad boys' jump at every chance they get. >_>
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xfma_addictx wrote:
Balrog wrote:
xfma_addictx wrote:
I want a huggy boyfriend. HUGS FTW.
And he's gotta be nice. And smart. And calm. And helpful. And OK with my crazyness. And nice. And tall. To reach the cabinets I can't reach. And a potential PW convert. Or a PW freak to begin with. And likes video games. And kids. And [/endless rant]
And he's gotta be nice. And smart. And calm. And helpful. And OK with my crazyness. And nice. And tall. To reach the cabinets I can't reach. And a potential PW convert. Or a PW freak to begin with. And likes video games. And kids. And [/endless rant]
If only there were girls like you at my school ;_;
Maybe they're hiding?
You could visit MY school anytime XD
If only I could ;_;
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Yeah, well maybe if I wasn't so much better than everyone else, I wouldn't have to talk about it so much.
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Balrog wrote:
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You could visit MY school anytime XD
If only I could ;_;
Awww :(
Me so sowwys. D:
Good, nice people who are willing to date you are hard to come by when your a Phoenix Wright nerd XD
I know more nice guys OUTSIDE of school than inside, though. And all of them are homeschooled
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Yeah, well maybe if I wasn't so much better than everyone else, I wouldn't have to talk about it so much.
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xfma_addictx wrote:
Good, nice people who are willing to date you are hard to come by when your a Phoenix Wright nerd XD
So true. ;_;
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I think it would be creepy to date anyone from High School. I just don't know anyone I would want to date... and I don't really want to be with people I've been with for 5 years.
My swim team has a lot of nice guys, but they're all home schooled and won't get dates until they're older anyways. I don't want to date... it's expensive and I can't drive at the moment. And I don't know what I'd do if someone asked me out.
I probably wouldn't hear them, wouldn't understand them, or think that they're joking. I'm such a looser when it comes to this kind of stuff XD
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xfma_addictx wrote:
And I don't know what I'd do if someone asked me out.
I probably wouldn't hear them, wouldn't understand them, or think that they're joking. I'm such a looser when it comes to this kind of stuff XD
I probably wouldn't hear them, wouldn't understand them, or think that they're joking. I'm such a looser when it comes to this kind of stuff XD
Same goes with me. I would be sure they were just joking or I would completely miss it. It's the same thing with flirting. I don't notice when someone flirts with me and I don't notice when I flirt with someone. If someone has flirted with me some time, I'm sure I haven't understood it... Pretty sad indeed.
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Nego wrote:
xfma_addictx wrote:
And I don't know what I'd do if someone asked me out.
I probably wouldn't hear them, wouldn't understand them, or think that they're joking. I'm such a looser when it comes to this kind of stuff XD
I probably wouldn't hear them, wouldn't understand them, or think that they're joking. I'm such a looser when it comes to this kind of stuff XD
Same goes with me. I would be sure they were just joking or I would completely miss it. It's the same thing with flirting. I don't notice when someone flirts with me and I don't notice when I flirt with someone. If someone has flirted with me some time, I'm sure I haven't understood it... Pretty sad indeed.
Come to think of it... I don't know how to flirt. Yay >__>
And pervs are annoying. D:
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xfma_addictx wrote:
I know more nice guys OUTSIDE of school than inside, though. And all of them are homeschooled
Ah.. the days of my youth... like the scent of hot cocoa you see...
I was homeschooled all the way through. I enjoyed it. I could enjoy the quiet or play music if I wanted. The only down side was I couldn't get snow days or sick days (unless I was near death) since my school was right there.
But over all it wasn't that bad.
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xfma_addictx wrote:
Nego wrote:
xfma_addictx wrote:
And I don't know what I'd do if someone asked me out.
I probably wouldn't hear them, wouldn't understand them, or think that they're joking. I'm such a looser when it comes to this kind of stuff XD
I probably wouldn't hear them, wouldn't understand them, or think that they're joking. I'm such a looser when it comes to this kind of stuff XD
Same goes with me. I would be sure they were just joking or I would completely miss it. It's the same thing with flirting. I don't notice when someone flirts with me and I don't notice when I flirt with someone. If someone has flirted with me some time, I'm sure I haven't understood it... Pretty sad indeed.
Come to think of it... I don't know how to flirt. Yay >__>
And pervs are annoying. D:
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I don't think I've yet even met someone I could even think sharing my life with...
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I don't think I've yet even met someone I could even think sharing my life with...
It depends for me... I don't know someone that well, but he gives me that impression. But it takes a LOT for me to like someone like a 'crush'. After what happened to him... (no I didn't get a broken heart, just realized what a jerk he turned out to be. >_>)
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xfma_addictx wrote:
Nego wrote:
I don't think I've yet even met someone I could even think sharing my life with...
It depends for me... I don't know someone that well, but he gives me that impression. But it takes a LOT for me to like someone like a 'crush'. After what happened to him... (no I didn't get a broken heart, just realized what a jerk he turned out to be. >_>)
Well, I have had many crushes but I have always noticed they aren't someone I could picture myself with. There is always been something missing or something too many. It's really difficult to find a Finnish girl, who wouldn't smoke, drink alcohol, want to have sex before marriage, be unplayful, not have the mind of a child (that does not mean being childish) and so on. Maybe I'm just too picky? >_<
Also, I'm not sure if I want to get a girlfriend now since I've been thinking about moving out of the country during in the future.
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Nego wrote:
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Nego wrote:
I don't think I've yet even met someone I could even think sharing my life with...
It depends for me... I don't know someone that well, but he gives me that impression. But it takes a LOT for me to like someone like a 'crush'. After what happened to him... (no I didn't get a broken heart, just realized what a jerk he turned out to be. >_>)
Well, I have had many crushes but I have always noticed they aren't someone I could picture myself with. There is always been something missing or something too many. It's really difficult to find a Finnish girl, who wouldn't smoke, drink alcohol, want to have sex before marriage, be unplayful, not have the mind of a child (that does not mean being childish) and so on. Maybe I'm just too picky? >_</quote]
Remember, Nego, when you start getting not picky, then you start being unhappy with your partners. Wait, it's the best :)
And smoking/drinking/sex/unfaithful/uncommitted/druggie/unplayful/untrustworthy people are... people you should stay away from. I'm sure there's a girl out there for you (and I'm pretty sure she's Finnish!)
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xfma_addictx wrote:
And smoking/drinking/sex/unfaithful/uncommitted/druggie/unplayful/untrustworthy people are... people you should stay away from. I'm sure there's a girl out there for you (and I'm pretty sure she's Finnish!)
Yeah, you might be right about that one. Like I said, I have no idea where I'm going to be say 5 years from now so I have no idea what I should do. Things are going into a direction I don't want them to go here and that's why I feel like moving somewhere else. I have no idea what I'm going to do in the future. >_<
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Nego wrote:
This is actually the worst thing I can have, as my sister prefers being in company. That's why I don't spend time alone when she's visiting us (she lives in Sweden and comes home every summer and winter). I love spending time with her, but I'd also love to be alone sometimes. This makes us argue every now and then, but I don't think either one of us can be blamed for that. We are two different people with different needs.
Of course, she's your SISTER.... not your LOVER. You can't do romance with your sister, that's incest.... +_+
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Also, I'm not sure if I want to get a girlfriend now since I've been thinking about moving out of the country during in the future.
I'm moving out of the country when I'm older. Probably before mid-twenties or when I reach mid-twenties (or after that)... duno. Maybe we shall travel together to discover the world (and ourselves).
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xfma_addictx wrote:
Well, I have had many crushes but I have always noticed they aren't someone I could picture myself with. There is always been something missing or something too many. It's really difficult to find a Finnish girl, who wouldn't smoke, drink alcohol, want to have sex before marriage, be unplayful, not have the mind of a child (that does not mean being childish) and so on. Maybe I'm just too picky? >_</quote]
Remember, Nego, when you start getting not picky, then you start being unhappy with your partners. Wait, it's the best :)
Remember, Nego, when you start getting not picky, then you start being unhappy with your partners. Wait, it's the best :)
That would be the same matter with me.
My best friend is in a relationship and sometimes I feel left out. Many of my girlfriends ask me "How's your lovelife?" and I answer "Hmmm...just liking this particular guy. I don't want to start a relationship just yet."
I'm glad I'm not like those girls who go out with people at such a young age. Two of my art mates has already fallen pregnant and it's the same with other girls in my college. It's even worse in secondary school!
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xfma_addictx wrote:
Nego wrote:
I don't think I've yet even met someone I could even think sharing my life with...
It depends for me... I don't know someone that well, but he gives me that impression. But it takes a LOT for me to like someone like a 'crush'. After what happened to him...
I think I have crushes way to often, but they dont last long cause I can never get the courage to ask her out. Its sad -.-"
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Yeah, well maybe if I wasn't so much better than everyone else, I wouldn't have to talk about it so much.
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Ken wrote:
I find that being alone breaks away a person from peer pressure. I think it's really good then.
So... being locked in a room with no out side contact is a good thing? O.o
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Yeah, well maybe if I wasn't so much better than everyone else, I wouldn't have to talk about it so much.
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Ken wrote:
I find that being alone breaks away a person from peer pressure. I think it's really good then.
So... being locked in a room with no
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Yeah, well maybe if I wasn't so much better than everyone else, I wouldn't have to talk about it so much.
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So I didn't need anyone, and enjoyed books and music, later movies, all alone. The few friends I had were very precious to me, and I shared my passion with them.
I've lived with my boyfriend for almost 7 years (we're not married), and he was my third boyfriend. And now I'm very happy.
I'm not sure it could help you, but I would say you don't have to worry. If you wait, I think you will find really good people to be with.
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But as far as relationships go...I'm still petrified of being alone. I don't wanna die alone. I thrive off of the sort of feelings that love envokes, and it gives me something more to live for than the piece of shit life I have now. Considering I only just NOW graduated high school (lol night school), have no job, have no drivers license, most of my friends live like....across the country and my family is made of fail and suck, being in a relationship lets me live for someone else besides myself. That's really all I want. To lavish my attention on someone and make them happy to be with me. That's all. I really can't stand having no one, it hurts me. Because it's also a reflection of how I am as a person. The fact that no one wants to love me makes me wonder if I'm really a good person at all.
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Balrog wrote:
So you remember that thread? As I recall it was over whelmed with Gears's trolling and opinion/flames
Fix'd for a bit more accuracy.
But yeah I remember, and it was indeed overwhelmed.
Don't mind me, just passing through.
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Most girls around my age (23) have been raised by television and movies and have been thoroughly fooled into thinking that love is supposed to be a Meg Ryan romantic comedy or a Disney movie where every conflict wraps up nicely in 15 minutes, with the resolution being a magical marriage proposal in Tahiti complete with a $27,000 engagement ring, an orchestra of talking lobsters playing the cello, and a magic carpet ride. This leads to the attitude where a girl's feelings at any given moment are the ultimate validator of right and wrong. Many girls have no qualms about cheating on their boyfriend or husband if they've worked up a good mad against him, even for the tiniest reasons. Young girls are still holding out for a perfect soap opera guy, and many will gladly hop from boyfriend to boyfriend if they feel like the new guy will buy them more stuff, or boost their popularity score. I'm not saying they shouldn't have the right to do that, but I want no part in that stupid game anymore.
So many girls have stringent requirements for partners that no one could possibly live up to. Ask a girl what her ideal partner is like and she'll probably be ready to bust out the 120-point list of requirements. Maybe this is just me, but I have no vision of the "perfect girl" in my mind. I'm completely open to suggestions (or at least I would be if I wanted to date).
Even if I did find someone who was a perfect match for me, who's to say it'll always be that way? I'm not the same person I was 5 years ago, so how can I guarantee anyone I'll be in love with the same person for the next 50 years or more? If we get divorced, she'll make off with at least half of my net worth. Staying single is both an emotional choice and an important career choice. If I marry, I may not be able to retire. I absolutely refuse to give away that much money because my wife just got bored of me, or got bored of our house, or our hobbies, or our circle of friends.
I don't mean to paint every member of the same gender with the same brush, but I don't want to take a risk on someone being the exception. Almost everyone I know who has gotten married has gotten divorced. Between my father and my three uncles, there have been 7 divorces. 5 of them were due to the wife cheating, in a financially and emotionally stable marriage. All of them felt completely justified in their actions. The statistics are not appealing.
If I sound bitter and cynical, it's because I'm extremely bitter and cynical.
I'm not saying guys are angels, either. Don't get me started on the average guy who expects his wife to be a porn star who never needs affection. Drunk, abusive, deadbeat rapists are the reason why decent men can get fleeced in a divorce settlement.
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Bombom Dubbie wrote:
xfma_addictx wrote:
Well, I have had many crushes but I have always noticed they aren't someone I could picture myself with. There is always been something missing or something too many. It's really difficult to find a Finnish girl, who wouldn't smoke, drink alcohol, want to have sex before marriage, be unplayful, not have the mind of a child (that does not mean being childish) and so on. Maybe I'm just too picky? >_</quote]
Remember, Nego, when you start getting not picky, then you start being unhappy with your partners. Wait, it's the best :)
Remember, Nego, when you start getting not picky, then you start being unhappy with your partners. Wait, it's the best :)
That was NEGO who said that, not me
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Even if I did find someone who was a perfect match for me, who's to say it'll always be that way? I'm not the same person I was 5 years ago, so how can I guarantee anyone I'll be in love with the same person for the next 50 years or more? If we get divorced, she'll make off with at least half of my net worth. Staying single is both an emotional choice and an important career choice. If I marry, I may not be able to retire. I absolutely refuse to give away that much money because my wife just got bored of me, or got bored of our house, or our hobbies, or our circle of friends.
Ok. If that happens, you've found the WRONG partner.
Love is meant to be flexible. Yes, maybe you'll change, but she should accept that. And love, later in life, when your married, is more like an intimate friendship than a 'burning romantic passion'. That goes away after a few years. You love someone for who they are, and who they'll be. And if you find someone you really, truly love, they'll keep you in check. If you do somehow start to change for the worse, she'll be able to help you. She needs to be there for you.
And I HATE SOAP OPERAS. THERE IS NO WAY LOVE CAN BE LIKE THAT >_<'''
Soap operas are boring. I find a lot of shows much more interesting.
Ok, you best partner is one that will STAY WITH YOU. So, make sure to date for a long time before someone proposes. Talk about the important stuff: Finance, Kids, Jobs, ect. Learn about her. Find what's her deal-breakers, and look at yours.
Oh wow, did I just get reallllly serious all of a sudden? Sorry...
I hope this helps, coming from a 15 year old girl who's never dated. (But I do live in a healthy family relationship... DadxMom OTP ;D)
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Yes, the ideal partner will be there to support you when you're at your lowest, but realistically it doesn't turn out nearly as simple as it sounds. There will be conflicts, and as men/women they WILL feel their actions are justified by their own thoughts and beliefs. Of course there are those that will feel remorse for their actions and apologize, but to some people it's just not that easy to forgive and forget.
Not saying long-lasting relationships and marriages are impossible, but it wouldn't be too surprising if some people thought of it as naive. Just sayin'..
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We just wouldn't click.
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Bensan wrote:
Myself, Personally... No one really seems like they're worth my time, arrogantly put enough.
We just wouldn't click.
We just wouldn't click.
D:
No one is 'worth your time'?
It's like you've got it easy... girls who want you, but they don't think they're worth it. You've got to tell them that they ARE worth it (or one of them)
OR did I just interpret your post completely wrong?
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Chain Smoker
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Its not like I'm some 'womg major stud'. Its just I put it arrogantly.
The issue is everyone around here would be best as friends, If that. I don't click with them.
I'm guilty of it, Really.
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akane wrote:
Hrm I will most likely be eternally single. I haven't really had any relationships >.< Aly is unloved :(
Don't say that! We just haven't met 'the one' yet... who is really meant for each other....
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People just need to build up confidence, not just to ask girls out but to feel better about themselves in general. Seven years ago I was one of the biggest otaku losers out there who was also overweight with confidence the size of a peanut, but I decided to change that by first shedding my fat(funny enough, through DDR..heh). I lost a lot of weight during the fall/winter time and it helped me feel better about myself. It was then that I also met my first girlfriend, though it didn't automatically click but rather just happened through time. Gradually I started becoming more self-conscious and changing my looks/clothes/so on, and it's helped me become at least more social.
It just takes confidence and also perseverence(sp?). It's rare for couples to automatically click and be together forever off their first try, so if you get rejected or break up with your partner then whatever. It hurts, but in the end you'll get a lot out of your experiences.
I know I know, it's easier said than done, but it honestly won't hurt to try.
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