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I open up this thread as there are some of us in CR misunderstood the meaning of SOLITUDE. Solitude is enjoying oneself of the freedom of being alone, therefore it's not a sad thing that people equate as in loneliness.
Basically, there are various reasons for going solo. To put things simple, I put it in a list (as follows):
- religious reasons
- commitments towards career
- putting one's concentration in studies
- family bounds (siblings and/or parents, etc.)
- trying to reach own goals/dreams
- love for touring/travelling
- room for self-discovery
.... or other reasons that only an individual holds dearly. And it's a good aspect for privacy to some people.
So what's your opinion about this?
Hmmmm... whatever, it is time to 
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no, nothing
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Solitude.
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Phff, You call this a Zombie apocalypse?
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Gozu wrote:
As in, regarding relationships? I dunno, I'm a fan of them, personally
Ya, I agree, for the most part there a good thing
Gyakuten Phoenix wrote:
Yeah, well maybe if I wasn't so much better than everyone else, I wouldn't have to talk about it so much.
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I think some people need this time more than they realize, put things into perspective in there life.
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Self-awareness is important or you'd be tormenting the other person whom you're making the connection with.
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RufusLLS wrote:
Being in a relationship is ok, I just wish I could find someone. The relationships I've been in have ended crappy, so I'm nervous when it comes to something like that. That's why I'll take a female friend over a girlfriend any day, no physical relations but at least I know I won't get slammed in the end.
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DefenseNeverRests wrote:
That's the problem. I wish the person I love didn't live so far away. I mean...I love him so much, but he's just far away. *Sigh* Maybe we'll meet someday.
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There are times when I prefer to be alone, and when I need to be alone, and then the times where I can't stand being alone. Its the times when I WANT to do something when everyone else wants to be left alone, then when I'm trying to cool off, meditate, or just relax they come and start harassing/bugging me XP
I definatley love to get out on my own for a little while after school and live alone. I would have friends and date and what not, I'd just like to LIVE alone with just my dogs XD Fot a short while, a year or two.
I'm used to having my own space and my own stuff and very few people do I like or want bothering my space. I'm an only child and I am used to my rules and the peace I get alone at home without others my age around really helps me calm down and cool off from the stresses of school and work. I absolutely want to take a bigass knife and ram it through my cousin's head because she doesn't understand the idea of entertaining oneself or "alone time". She gets into all my stuff and thinks whats mine is hers. Its really annoying, and I can't stand anyone whom I didn't invite to touch my stuff or get into my space. Its really aggravating XP
I'd just like to develop in my own space for awhile and have control over something of my own, only letting people that I want to come into it. Something about that would just make me feel a whole lot better and less violated. I have nothing to hide (but a few stacks of yaoi from my grandma XD), but my space is important and it helps me alot to be alone.
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1 2 3, Do Re Mi
What's going to happen
(arabic alphabets), A B C
What's going to happen
Still will happen
The rain will stop, eventually --> translated as, sorrow will be gone (eventually)
There are times I like company
There are times I like solitude
There are times I like to travel
There are times I like to stay idle
There are times you like company
There are times you like solitude
There are times you like to travel
There are times you like what I like
Life and fate is like a roller-coaster (roller-coaster)
The tough times and joys are everchanging
At anytime, it'd be ups and downs
Apocalypse
1 2 3, Do Re Mi
What's going to happen
(arabic alphabets), A B C
What's going to happen
Still will happen
The rain will stop, eventually
There are times we like company
There are times we like solitude
There are times we like to travel
There are times we like~ --> subjectively translated as, all matters in life
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Hmmmm... whatever, it is time to (7o_o)7 Sprite Arts Game char Deja-vus? Chores AA char in 3D! Ryu ♥ CR!
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It's best leaving that crap alone and living for the future xD Since I've started to let go of certain things its helped me to calm down alot more
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Or play a game when you don't go anywhere. Or sleep.
Sleep = great solitude time
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ALL BY MY SELLLLLF~I can handle not being in a relationship, as I am now and have been for most of my existence (lol sad), but I'd go bonkers without my roomie to talk to/snuggle.
I found my longest lasting relationship (2 years) to be utterly time consuming and exhausting. Still enjoyable, but for someone as lazy as me it took a bit too much effort.
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Of the points above, I have to say that's just about right for many people, particularly myself...
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Bruce Goldberg wrote:
I kind of liked it to be myself these days. It allows me to gather my thoughts and as well as expand my views on life. And it's especially hard to rely on yourself and pull through everything.
Of the points above, I have to say that's just about right for many people, particularly myself...
Of the points above, I have to say that's just about right for many people, particularly myself...
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Ken wrote:
Sleep = great solitude time
Ain't that the truth, hate it when people wake me up over dumb stuff. wrote:
I found my longest lasting relationship (2 years) to be utterly time consuming and exhausting. Still enjoyable, but for someone as lazy as me it took a bit too much effort.
This is also another reason I rather be alone, dealing with another person. It's a little too much effort for me atm, I just can't handle someones needs with my own. I think I will be able to do that soon, but right now it just seems like unnecessary work.
That's why I have my female friends, I can kinda practice on them; sorta speak. Talk, listen and hear there troubles and accomplishments, then try to carry that over in a real relationship. To be honest though, when I was in relationship it felt too good. To know that someones else out there likes you enough to have you around almost all the time. . . it's great. But the game is changing out here now a days, it's no longer "I like you! Me too! Wanna spend some time to get to know each other? SURE" (Not exactly like that, but you should get the idea). Now you have to worry over people that just want to hurt you on purpose, or people that just want something from you. It's too much of a gamble to try to find someone for you sometimes.
But that's the relationship side of being solitude.
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RufusLLS wrote:
Now you have to worry over people that just want to hurt you on purpose, or people that just something from you. It's too much of a gamble to try to find someone for you sometimes.
People that just something from you?
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Relationships are a major waste of time!
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Kyo Kusanagi wrote:
Waste of time. Wow, that reminded me of someone...
Such as?
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Kyo Kusanagi wrote:
RufusLLS wrote:
Now you have to worry over people that just want to hurt you on purpose, or people that just something from you. It's too much of a gamble to try to find someone for you sometimes.
People that just something from you?
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Concerned Citizen wrote:
Kyo Kusanagi wrote:
Waste of time. Wow, that reminded me of someone...
Such as?
My bro. And he's shielding boys away from me. He's acting like some kinda moat around a castle....
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Just thinking about it gives me the chills.
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I belong to no one. And no one belongs to me -- even if I love that special, precious person.
*hint hint"
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Concerned Citizen wrote:
I honestly just don't want to end one those women who ends up involved of those abusive relationships.
Just thinking about it gives me the chills.
Just thinking about it gives me the chills.
Is that what really happens? Now am scared... but I trust Nego though, more than I trust any other guys I've ever met....
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Kyo Kusanagi wrote:
Concerned Citizen wrote:
I honestly just don't want to end one those women who ends up involved of those abusive relationships.
Just thinking about it gives me the chills.
Just thinking about it gives me the chills.
Is that what really happens? Now am scared... but I trust Nego though, more than I trust any other guys I've ever met....
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That's when we put our minds to work (we're higher up than animals, so use the mind for complicatedness); the chances of the odds are awakening one's hidden self (good and bad) and again -- relies on the mind as to distinguish which should be carried out for the good of all of us except the ones who are dead. Oh yes, that Portal quote is really an inspiring reference for my words here. (Games are good for you because they boost thinking ability.... kinda..... hehehe~)
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In other words, getting into the extremes makes a person inhuman. Don't go overboard in anything you do.
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Ken wrote:
As long you know what you're doing.
I said it's a good answer not because of what I know of, it's just because it might work for many situations I suppose....
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